---
title: "Reach out or pass on a Daily introduction"
description: "Tap Reach out to send a request with an optional message, or Not for me to close the introduction. It becomes a match only if they are interested."
url: https://help.murudo.co/finding-people/daily-reach-outs/
section: "Daily, For You and Likes"
applies_to: "Android app, Murudo Web"
updated: 2026-10-13
---

# Reach out or pass on a Daily introduction

Tap Reach out to send a request with an optional message, or Not for me to close the introduction. It becomes a match only if they are interested.

Every Daily introduction has two buttons. **Reach out** sends the person a request, with a message if you write one. **Not for me** closes the introduction. A request becomes a match only if the other person is interested.

## Reach out

1. Open the **Daily** tab.
2. Type a first message in **Add a message (optional)**, up to 500 characters. If you leave it empty, Murudo sends "Hey" for you.

   {{shot: daily-intro | A Daily introduction card with the message box, Not for me and Reach out}}

3. Tap **Reach out**.

You see **Request sent**. The person finds your request and your message in their **Matches** tab, under **Daily**, and chooses **Interested** or **Not interested**. If they choose **Interested**, you match and your message is the first one in the chat.

To read the full profile first, tap the card. On the profile, the **heart** at the bottom sends the same request and the **X** is the same as **Not for me**. The profile has no message box, so write your message on the card before you open it.

## Pass

Tap **Not for me**. The card closes and the other person is not told.

> [!IMPORTANT]
> **Not for me** cannot be undone, and Daily does not introduce the same person to you twice. Rewind only works in For You.

## Good to know

- A Daily reach-out does not use one of your daily likes.
- Introductions run out. The card shows the time left; once it expires you can no longer reach out.
- A request you sent runs out too. If the other person does not answer within 20 hours, it expires.
- You are not told when someone chooses **Not interested**. The request simply never becomes a match.
- If the app says **Message not sent**, the introduction has usually expired or the person is no longer available.

## Requests sent to you

When someone reaches out to you from their Daily, it appears in **Matches**, under **Daily**. On the Free plan you see a limited number of these at a time and the rest are locked. See [Daily requests in Matches](https://help.murudo.co/matches-and-chat/daily-requests/).

## On Murudo Web

The **Daily** tab at murudo.co/app has the same message box and the same **Not for me** and **Reach out** buttons.